tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-56219812011-07-14T16:38:24.393-05:00The Price of NiceJust another blog about the lessons life teaches.
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thepriceofnice@hotmail.comCharleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comBlogger501100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1076097444804471042004-02-06T14:57:00.000-05:002004-02-06T14:59:23.420-05:00Well just for a quick update, as of febuary 20th im flying out to california with my girlfriend katie's cousin justin. Im going to a photo shoot and a party at the playboy mansion. Im gonna have one hell of a time. After that im back to california for spring break and possibly over the summer. Is anyone seeing a pattern here. Things are going very well for me right now and im busting my ass to Charleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1073412635170144162004-01-06T13:10:00.000-05:002004-01-06T13:11:47.530-05:00well its been a long time since ive posted to this blog. So much for a year right. Well from this point on i dont know if im going to post again. So ill give everyone who still reads this a quick update. Ive met the girl of my dreams, for all those who know her name is katie. together she and i have escaped back to gainesville where i am now finishing my degree. I got a new studio apartment , noCharleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1068124371195130052003-11-06T08:12:00.000-05:002003-11-06T08:20:05.783-05:00defamation of character. hmm well considering using someones first name is not illegal, especially when they post it themselves well eh. Its just kind of suspicious when all the entries have the same ip. So you explain cookie monster but did blue use your computer for the entry you said was him. or how about the other two. Its rather strange now isnt it. And i know your going to read this. Wow Charleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1068102787335145432003-11-06T02:13:00.000-05:002003-11-06T08:44:03.236-05:00Ok now im just having a fun epiphany day,
so i checked my guest book and figured why not lets match the ips and i realized the soniya person is posting as other people and then trying to make herself look good by admonishing them
its rather funny i think.
Cookie monster is her, Surprise? is her, the september 9th entry is her, as well as one of the private entries.
How sick and twisted is Charleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1067933564705151032003-11-04T03:12:00.000-05:002003-11-06T02:12:04.846-05:00Time is such a vague perception. For every moment spent i find myself wondering where i have been. Its been a long journey so far. So many things have changed since i left gainesville. Ive fallen in love again. Ive found the reasons why i keep going forward. I know why i dont give up. My world was turned upside down, and now thats the way it stays. Being the nice guy is dangerous. People use you.Charleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1066247666156359832003-10-15T14:54:00.000-05:002003-10-15T16:08:37.586-05:00 Wow its been almost a month since i last updated and so much has changed in my life. I leave to return to gainesville in late december early january. Ive met the girl of my dreams, their is so much more there than i could ever explain. The connections i feel with her run deeper than anything ive ever felt before and i dont want to take the chance of letting that slip away. I had such high Charleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1064047449684651432003-09-20T03:44:00.000-05:002003-09-20T03:53:57.760-05:00Well its been a long time people and i have a feeling ive probably lost alot of the people who were reading this. Im sorry.
To bring things up to speed ive been seeing a wonderful girl for the last month now. Im taking things slow but because of my issues with commitment and such. That huge issue plus this overwhelming urge to run away is really causing me to lose faith in myself/ Im slowly Charleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1063766053287614812003-09-16T11:20:00.000-05:002003-09-16T21:34:13.386-05:00Wow time flies when you suddenly have a life and way too many responisbilities to handle at once. Charleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1063084875871789722003-09-09T00:21:00.000-05:002003-09-09T00:21:15.893-05:00: Jason
Comments: For one..i dont know who said anything about getting anyone..im glad marie knows i just wish i was the one who told her... im not out to get anyone.. i have to get on with my life as well you should get on with yours..i wish you the best of luck.. i dont talk about anything im not out to hurt anyone for anything i dont know what anyone in my family is doing but they arent doingCharleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1062605118798282382003-09-03T11:05:00.000-05:002003-09-03T11:06:54.336-05:00Hah dissappear for a few days, and suddenly you come back to find the world does exist and some people are a rather interesting lot. Latest guest book entry, for those who cant see the private entries.
Theo
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Comments: You're a fucking loser. You're very ugly and you need to lose weight. You're disgusting and you need to get a life. Your girlfriend was an ugly bitch anyway so Charleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1061769946541992232003-08-24T19:05:00.000-05:002003-08-24T19:07:58.846-05:00Alright, now I'm actually posting, it took me so long because I'm a moron and didn't realize my invitation was sent to junkmail. But now I'm finally a part of this wonderful project and am happy about it.
Kylekylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02761030578937063363noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1061376710184540892003-08-20T05:51:00.000-05:002003-08-20T05:51:50.246-05:00Also until i can figure out why the blog isnt loading correctly just click the archive for this month and it will fix the load on the blog.
ElysiumCharleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1061374706118347072003-08-20T05:18:00.000-05:002003-08-20T05:40:29.483-05:00Well its taking even longer to get settled than i anticipated. It is slowly hitting me that nothing is the same anymore. Old place... new faces, its really weird. Ive enrolled in classes and gotten my old job back. I just realized that i also graduate in 4 semesters, counting the one im enrolled in now. Im thinking ill keep going to school after that. I dont know why but i think its the best Charleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1061274109882766622003-08-19T01:21:00.000-05:002003-08-19T01:21:49.886-05:00posted, didnt post got deleted, not happy will post it all in the morning, was a long one too. blechCharleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1061268832916592502003-08-18T23:53:00.000-05:002003-08-18T23:53:52.780-05:00Well ive finally followed through on moving out. Its done and im now 2 hours away from any reminder of the past. For those who read this i say yet another thanks and expect many mroe installments now that im back in the company of close family and friends.
Its odd, in the last 2 monthes ive learned more about myself than i thought was possible. I took a long hard look on the past and my mistakesCharleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1061220397792087102003-08-18T10:26:00.000-05:002003-08-18T10:26:37.810-05:00Well the move is finally over and i can devote a little more time to this blog. More developments as of late and a few new stories to share. Tonight at 11.Charleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1061142405349933632003-08-17T12:46:00.000-05:002003-08-17T12:46:45.373-05:00I really don't see how any of this is Charles' fault or why James' family would be "out to get" him. James said he wanted to tell Mary himself and he had like a month to do it, but unfortunately he failed so Charles spilled the beans. It's not like this all would've gone away if he didn't. frankhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02162264512609704520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1060994531928777692003-08-15T19:42:00.000-05:002003-08-15T19:42:07.743-05:00Well by looking at the guestbook i see we have a few new voices, two of which i have an idea who they are. I also have a message for "james", its seems ive heard your out to get me for sparing your ex the pain i had to deal with. Well fine come after me, feel free. But be warned should you feel the need to try anything, remember who everybody is still friedns with and realize the consequences of Charleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1060767436713943312003-08-13T04:37:00.000-05:002003-08-13T04:42:06.706-05:00Finally relief. My ex best friends girlfriend knows the truth now. Its a huge load of my chest and i think ive just found the closure i needed by saving a friend the heartache i felt. I hope she figures everything out and knows ill be there whenever she needs to talk. Charleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1060435574058916632003-08-09T08:26:00.000-05:002003-08-09T08:26:14.053-05:00Well days have past, yet uneventful. Work is killing me, moving is killing me. I have found a few bright spots in my day, and im hoping that they stay there. Im preparing for the move home, im kind of leery as part of the reason im moving home is to help my dad financially. Im going to keep letting him think he is helping me out, so he doesnt feel bad knowing one of the reasons his son is moving Charleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1060332488880087122003-08-08T03:48:00.000-05:002003-08-08T05:03:08.516-05:00Ok on to what some of you people are wondering about. Her journal entries, we were going to post them, so in a turnaround she posted them of her own accord. She has yet again deleted them so frank is back at it. He will be posting the edited entries as of august 15thCharleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1060324290076460992003-08-08T01:31:00.000-05:002003-08-08T03:49:24.523-05:00Well here goes. In a nutshell i have been slowly bringing my things home. As this project progresses i start to see more and more of what i expected, people questioning my motives as to why i am being nice. I have been getting a better response from people in general, but i cant shake the nasty responses i get. I actually got a rather interesting response from a guy the other day, he got upset Charleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1060303256072322102003-08-07T19:40:00.000-05:002003-08-07T19:40:56.060-05:00now i havent posted in a few days, im in the process of moving home and have been making the lovely 2 hour commute there and back every other day. I will give a good update later tonight.Charleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1060022620660056542003-08-04T13:43:00.000-05:002003-08-04T13:43:40.726-05:00Oh and marie if you are reading this, im sorry i didnt tell you right off the bat, jason begged me not to, he said he would do anything. He said he was going to tell you himself. I wanted to give him that oppurtunity and he hasnt taken it. I apologize now for what i have to do. Read this blog and the accompanying link. It will shed light on the last 2 and a half years of my life and the last yearCharleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1060021460847823902003-08-04T13:24:00.000-05:002003-08-04T13:24:20.910-05:00Well it seems my ex has finally come to terms and is getting over everything herself. Feel free to read her unedited entries. I have included a link to them on the right entitled "washing away her sins" I havent had a chance to see if they are all the entries but she posted them, she wrote them, and they are her personal thoughts. Feel free to read them but dont judge her, judge her actions. As aCharleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1059981509188444842003-08-04T02:18:00.000-05:002003-08-04T02:37:17.283-05:00Weird how one day you think your life is fine and the next it falls to pieces. I lost alot basing the last few years of my life on my friends. We all have to learn sometime right. I keep replaying everything in my head and replacing seens with images of exactly what she did to me and when she did it. It really hurts. Everyday i act like i dont care, like it doesnt bother me. its true it doesnt Charleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1059980351725057792003-08-04T01:59:00.000-05:002003-08-04T02:00:24.910-05:00Notivilization: flexible word. Can be used as a verb or noun, meaning having sex , fooling around and anything pertaining to the arts of the kama sutra.
I notived last night. Verb usage
I need to get some notivilization. noun usageCharleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1059965052559084332003-08-03T21:44:00.000-05:002003-08-03T21:44:12.530-05:00Some more juicy entries, this time about a fellow named "John".
2002-09-16 00:01:00 I guess I was wrong. John and I talked on the phone for a long time in the last couple of weeks and it was so nice to talk to a guy who actually likes me, and not just wants to get w/ me. A few times we hung out and we were so close to kissing and we both wanted to, but it just wasn't the right opportunity. Wellfrankhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02162264512609704520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1059954026399273202003-08-03T18:40:00.000-05:002003-08-03T18:40:26.320-05:00Hmm well another large update tonight with many more entries frank feels should be seen. I will post more comments later on along with a much larger entry.Charleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1059896572683926722003-08-03T02:42:00.000-05:002003-08-03T02:42:52.613-05:00Ok well hmm. Ive been trying this nice thing for 2 days now. Im wondering why, as it seems im being nice to people and they are revealing to me more of what my ex g/f was doing while we were together. Hmm i guess they feel they are being nice to me in doing so. Weird
I have yet to understand this phenomenon.
Charleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1059893316424094952003-08-03T01:48:00.000-05:002003-08-03T02:43:54.013-05:00Some Headline news here. Not only did she cheat on me with my best friend, she cheated on me with my other best friend Joe's girlfriend as well. I always wondered why she suddenly didn't want to hang out with her. Now i understand. I can understand wanting to experiment but at least tell me. That is just irresponsible especially when you are involved in a sexual relationship with someone you Charleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1059891294693107522003-08-03T01:14:00.000-05:002003-08-03T01:14:54.706-05:00Well time to remove the poll, the votes were tallied at an amzaing 51-8 in favor of posting, and it seems that frunk has taken the liberty of posting a taste of what is to come. Charleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1059882007538131232003-08-02T22:40:00.000-05:002003-08-02T22:40:07.470-05:00The time has come for the first tidbit of journal entries to show themselves. First allow me to introduce the cast.
-Charles' ex-girlfriend: Vallery
-Charles' ex-bestfriend: James
-James' girlfriend (while these journal entries were posted): Mary
Various other names were changed as well, but they are insignificant. Keep in mind I will only be providing you with the juiciest parts of the entriesfrankhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02162264512609704520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1059841254546678022003-08-02T11:20:00.000-05:002003-08-02T11:22:30.920-05:00Charles is down here at his brother's house now, where I currently am, and I just had to witness him talking to his ex girlfriend via aol instant messanger and he was actually being nice to her. It was unbelieveable, she started the conversation yelling at him for something and he simply asked her if something was wrong and tried to lend a shoulder of understanding.
I can safely assure you that frankhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02162264512609704520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1059840656486247972003-08-02T11:10:00.000-05:002003-08-02T11:10:56.546-05:00I know they are the culmination of a weeks worth of waiting. I also know that if i post these entries now i will be violating the boundaries of the project. In essence i cant post them without ending the project before it has really come into existence. So hence i am not posting them. I have no control over my team though, as they have full rights to post what they feel on this blog and have the frankhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02162264512609704520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1059829349742415912003-08-02T08:02:00.000-05:002003-08-02T08:03:14.896-05:00Well im am at my dad's. It is a refreshing retreat from life in on my own. Im escaping all my problems and I know it. This has been needed for me to maintain some semblance of sanity. Well is is Saturday and i recognize the votes on the poll are rather steep in favor of the journals being posted. Tonight is a night where much may or may not happen. I know everyone here has been waiting for these Charleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1059800297495440002003-08-01T23:58:00.000-05:002003-08-01T23:58:17.356-05:00Today was interesting. I never realized being selfless and not thinking of yourself in a situation could be so hard. Well im going home for the weekend to prepare for the huge entry tomorrow night. Hope you keep reading and that its been interesting.Charleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1059715481397293572003-08-01T00:24:00.000-05:002003-08-01T16:11:43.996-05:00Ok its august 1st everyone so this project has officially started
I also want to get a few things straight before anymore people the need to judge me. First and foremost, my first few entries were very bitter. I know this, i readily admit it. I have also come to terms with it. This though is for all those people who felt the need to blame what happened on me. I had no idea it was going on. They Charleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1059630747315710022003-07-31T00:52:00.000-05:002003-07-31T00:52:27.170-05:00Nothing new save the ex has found the blog. For the few who want her side of the story, well im trying to get her to spill it but so far she has staunchly refused to. Maybe ill get her too maybe not, im wondering if its worth the effort.
Between work, college summer courses and this blog im wiped. Added a guestbook and forum for those who want to use it. Guestbook is at the bottom of the page,Charleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1059601120678011872003-07-30T16:38:00.000-05:002003-07-30T16:38:40.620-05:00I'm in about the same boat as Donald and I agree on some of what he said about the nice guy. I've been a nice guy to pretty much every girl I've ever been interested in, and it's got me nowhere. But I really don't think its the asshole perspective that attracts the women, but rather, plain and simple, looks. Sure, some women probably like to be treated like shit, and they'll be after the assholesfrankhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02162264512609704520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1059595871279749212003-07-30T15:11:00.000-05:002003-07-30T15:15:05.303-05:00Ok, im noticing that alot of people are making comments on the grammer and punctuation of the writing.For one when the hell did everyone become a writing critic? I also wonder why people care so much, cause we really don't. We are not here to write a book. We don't care if there are a few errors or for that matter if there are many. It is not impossible to read this people. I mean come on, and Donaldhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02018022248820317881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1059562302014379422003-07-30T05:51:00.000-05:002003-07-30T15:14:27.390-05:00It seems that im developing quite a following.
So now for all you readers out there who had their fun on metafilter. I say thanks. You have proven to me that this project will help me now more than any therapist or friend ever could. You all were right when you said that i posted the first few entries due to anger and bitterness. You were right to bash my punctuation and my poor grammer. I was Charleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1059552528590924102003-07-30T03:08:00.000-05:002003-07-30T03:56:47.450-05:00 Ok. I'll try to put up some reasoning for our thoughts. I'll try to explain my feeling towards the nice guy and the asshole. My brother as he said before pretty much played the asshole towards women for four years, and for that entire time, I cant really remember a time where he wasnt with someone. Now myself, for about the same amount of time have tried to be the the person my friends can Donaldhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02018022248820317881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1059548058757789282003-07-30T01:54:00.000-05:002003-07-30T01:54:18.636-05:00Well i'm the talked about brother whos finally posting. I'll post my thoughts whenever something comes to mind or just have the time and feel like making a point somewhere.
Things to know about me I guess would be, like my brother and a few of my friends i love the night, so i dont really sleep much.
I also rarely have anything to do nor the transportation if I did. Unlike frank I don't really Donaldhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02018022248820317881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1059546204752227652003-07-30T01:23:00.000-05:002003-07-30T01:24:48.910-05:00I'm new to the team and I'm currently working on getting these journals ready for your viewing pleasure. Here are some things you need to know about me:
-I'm nocturnal
-I'm nearly always bored so if I'm working on a project it'll probably get done quickly
-I like watching Nick@Nite and listening to Cher
If you feel the need to send me any feedback or anything of the sort you can reach me at frankhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02162264512609704520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1059544421026282142003-07-30T00:53:00.000-05:002003-07-30T03:33:36.456-05:00Ok here goes. I'm beginning to get my first correspondence in regards to my blog and am very satisfied with the results thus far. I have gotten responses from criticism to support and everythign inbetween and i am very satisfied with the results thus far. Please remember everyone i will to my best efforts respond to any and all emails i recieve whether they be critisism, support, or a story to Charleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1059454475465054122003-07-28T23:54:00.000-05:002003-07-29T00:46:33.303-05:00Ok people as promised i am going to explain this project. I am out to prove once and for all that nice guys truly finish last and prove to myself that women are a lost cause in the realms of romance and love. It is now time to explain myself and why i have such bitter feelings toward women in general, and alos towards men as well. July 4th, 2003 i actually did what every person shouldnt do i Charleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1059437527869526802003-07-28T19:12:00.000-05:002003-07-28T19:12:35.110-05:00Well today i will be adding 2 new teamates on this blog, yes people the first is a female and yes she is my friend so dont get any ideas. I think this whole project is going to need a female touch to get it off the ground. I am also adding my brother as i will be living with him and im hoping he can post his view on how im doing in comparison to mine because you always need new perspectives on Charleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1059389393516362782003-07-28T05:49:00.000-05:002003-07-28T19:05:33.670-05:00 Ok well here goes you all know about the site that i will be starting shortly, but to get things started i say i unveil a little something extra i will be toying with. I want to start an editorial column a little something to help guys understand women from a guy who has learned his fair share from listening. Oh and for all you women out there you heard me right, i said guy andCharleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5621981.post-1059378599727193722003-07-28T02:49:00.000-05:002003-07-28T05:53:42.030-05:00Well now its time for something new. I think i may just keep my deadjournal but this may just be something so much more fun. I will be opening my own website soon im finishing off my design team and we will eventually be working our way into some flash design and maybe even some old school xtml. Im going to hopefully adding some team members soon and get them up and posting and get the work on Charleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08083331760300958212noreply@blogger.com